No matter how many spandex costumes you put on and how many rooftops you scowl from, sometimes it just feels like for all your efforts the changes aren’t making a difference.

But it’s tough to look at the big pictures on things like this; instead you should try and focus on the little things you can fix: Like helping somebody find the bathroom in a crowded bar or not making a big deal of it when they’ve accidentally entered a broom closet.